Tater Tot chose Harold and the Purple Crayon for his bedtime story but this time, he added color commentary and my GOSH, he was funny. “The apples would be very tasty, Harold thought, when they got red.” But TT can’t leave it at that. “ The apples will always be purple Harold, because you drew them with a PURPLE crayon.” “But as he looked down over the other side, he slipped—” “OBVIOUSLY. He only drew one side. It’s not a good idea to climb a one-sided mountain you draw with a crayon.” Good advice, TaterTot. Now GO TO SLEEP.
Growing up is hard. Raising kids is hard. Being an adult is hard. One of the natural responses to things that are hard is fear. And fear tends to lead to lashing out. Last week, some kids were throwing rocks in the park next to our house and one of those rocks broke a window. The kids were so scared, they took off. We were scared because we didn’t know at the time if it was intentional or just an accident. It took me a couple hours to track down the kids and involved using video from a neighbor and intel from some middle schoolers I know. I took the time to do that because I didn’t want to be scared. But what I did not know at the time, was that I was also doing it to grow. I thought I would be angry when I found the rock throwers but as soon as I saw them and took a minute to think and watch them play, all I could feel was peace. I decided in that minute to treat them as though I understood their infinite potential. At that point I knew one of their names so I called ...
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